I guess I will start with the name of this blog, stealtherella. The stealth part is because I pray it remains hidden from the people I already know, and the Ella part because it is my name, and the way they are joined reminds me of Cinderella, and I am hoping that over time I will blossom like the tales of Princesses I grew up with.

The reason I want to keep the blog somewhat stealthy is because I intend to use it mostly for the purpose of telling a story, my own story up to now. I remember once a few years ago my mother telling me that if someone ever wrote our families story it would be too soap opera to believe.

I feel that actually writing it all down would help me develop as a person. So I guess I am blogging just for myself, but I will try my best to make it intelligible to others.

Well that is the start I guess, next step will be writing who the people involved in my story are, with names changed to protect the innocent… and the guilty.